Blakely’s Friday Interview with Barry Finlay

Please give a warm welcome to Barry Finlay, author of I Guess We Missed the Boat and Kilimanjaro and Beyond: A Life-Changing Journey.

IMG_4994Tell us a bit about yourself and what you’re currently working on or promoting.
I spent most of my career working for the Canadian federal government. I have been “retired” for a number of years and living the good life. In 2009 I climbed Mount Kilimanjaro at age 60 with my son and we wrote an award winning book, Kilimanjaro and Beyond, as a result. We had decided to use the climb as a platform to raise money to help some kids in Africa and after meeting them at their crowded classroom, I couldn’t stop. With the help of a lot of donors whom I can’t thank enough, we have since raised enough to drill a well, build a classroom and help some young women start small businesses in Tanzania. Our fundraising continues.

I still have time to write and just released a travel memoir called I Guess We Missed The Boat. As one reviewer pointed out, it isn’t your usual travel memoir as I focus on the amusing things that have happened in our travels. We usually travel with my in-laws so they play a starring role. And yes, fortunately, they are still speaking to me.

What genre is your book? Do you write in other genres as well?
My two published books are both non-fiction. My first book falls into the Inspirational category as it describes the satisfaction of helping oneself and others but there is a travel component to it as well. The second is a humorous travel memoir. Now I’m working on a non-fiction mystery thriller so I guess I don’t really have a specific genre.

Who or what inspires you?
I’m inspired by people who have done amazing things under difficult circumstances. There are many people who have tremendous stories to tell. Some don’t even realize they are inspiring. We are surrounded by people who have done great things and I draw inspiration from that.

Do you have an agent and/or publisher or are you self-published? If self-published, do you use a professional editor? If traditionally published, who is your publisher?
My first book was self published with Dog Ear Publishing. I’m following the more traditional route with the second as it has been published by General Store Publishing in Renfrew, Ontario, Canada. It’s early yet but I can see there is a loss of control with the traditional route that may be offset by the advantage of distribution.

I had a professional editor for both books and I highly recommend it. In both cases, the editors pointed out areas of redundancy or parts that required more or less emphasis. I’m convinced the books are better as a result. In my opinion, it doesn’t make sense to pour your heart and soul into your writing without ensuring that the finished product is the best it can be. It’s worth the money to have a qualified editor.

Do you use test readers? If so, how many?
My wife has been my test reader on my first two books. I have a friend who is a former deputy police chief and he is going to read the mystery thriller manuscript to make sure I’m not out in left field somewhere.

What advice do you have for writer’s just starting out?
I have learned that writing is the easy part. After it is published, getting your book noticed, ahead of the million or so other authors trying to do the same thing, is the tricky and time consuming part. A writer just starting out will have to be prepared to spend hours with social media and spreading the word by every available means. I’m not saying it isn’t fun promoting your work but it is something that a new writer needs to be prepared for. My second piece of advice is that if you feel like you have a book in you, write it! It’s very satisfying to see your work in print or ebook form.

I guess I have a third suggestion as mentioned previously. Hire an editor!

What does your writing space look like?
I have an office in one of the bedrooms in my home and I use a laptop most of the time. I have a desktop computer as a backup. Both sit on a nice desk. At least, I think my desk is nice. I haven’t seen much of the top of it lately…too many pieces of paper scattered about.

What project are you currently working on?
As mentioned above, I’m working on a mystery thriller. This is my first non-fiction book and I’m finding it more difficult than the books where I wrote what I lived. I’ve written about 185 pages and a number of things are starting to happen at once. I have laid them out in summary form so I don’t get confused or write something totally inconsistent. I’m also finding that the basic concept I had in my head is evolving as I write as things are going in different directions than I originally expected them to.

What book are you currently reading?
I’m currently reading Keith Richards’ Life. He is probably one of the most unapologetic people you will ever read, by the way. I like a variety of genres. I will read a non-fiction book, followed by 3 or 4 books by James Patterson, Lee Childs, Kathy Reichs, etc. Lately, I have been reading and enjoying books by some of my fellow lesser known local authors as well.

Is there a message in your book(s) that you want readers to grasp?
There is a common theme running through my first two books and that is how fortunate we are to be living where we do. When we are traveling, we need to take note of our surroundings and give back when we can. It could be something as simple as taking extra little toothpaste tubes with us when we go to a resort somewhere or a soccer ball to Africa. Even the smallest gesture by our standards is greatly appreciated by the recipients. In my first book, I also try to get across the point that it is never too late to pursue a dream. Most of us get caught up with careers and kids for a few years but there is still time to do other things later in life.

What do you do when you’re not writing?
During the summer I play a lot of golf and I curl during the winter. I learned the value of being in shape when I climbed the mountain. I felt much better and more energetic after training for the climb so I still try to maintain my fitness level. My philanthropic work takes a lot of time and my wife and I travel as much as we can. We also have three grandchildren from ages 18 months to 6 years old that we like to spend time with.

Do you read your reviews and if so, how do you cope with a bad one?
I do read reviews because I’m always surprised at what different people pick up from my books. Sometimes reviewers comment on some aspect of the story that I thought was insignificant. It’s interesting to see how different people will find different parts of a book important to them. As for negative reviews, my first book had won three awards and received 10 5-star and 2 4-star reviews when along came a comment that the book was a “disjointed jumble of words.” It was just the comment with no supporting justification for why the reader thought that. My first reaction was to fire back by pointing out the book’s success. After thinking about it for awhile, I realized that we are all entitled to our opinions. I guess if a book got bad review after bad review, it would be cause for concern and the author should reevaluate their writing. However, if there is one bad review mixed in with a number of good ones, I don’t think the author should pay that much attention.

However, it’s human nature to remember the bad review forever. We just have to remember that we are putting ourselves out there and social media gives people the opportunity to be critical without supporting their comments. I’m pretty sure most readers will glance at all the reviews but form their own conclusions based on the description of the book and the type of book they are looking for.

I, Blakely, have found the writer’s community to be very supportive and welcoming.  Barry, please share three writers that you recommend. 

  1. Len Westwood – Where Were You When I Was a Kid 
  2. Katherine Mercurio Gotthardt – Approaching Felonias Park 
  3. Claudine Gueh Yanting – My Clearest Me 

You can find Barry on his website, Facebook, Twitter, and Goodreads.

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Impatient Much?

Isabella_ImpatientThat would be me. Patience has never been my strong suit. I remember being a kid and how waiting in line was pure torture for me—really—waiting for anything. That is, until I realized I could create a story in my head while I waited. Walking home from school, I would sing a song I made up on the fly or fantasized about my latest fictional adventure.

I guess you could say my impatience lead me to be an author. That and my love of reading. Continue reading

Blakely’s Friday Interview with Jeanne D’eau

Please give a warm welcome to Jeanne D’eau, author of The Loves of Natalie Greenbaum, Book 1.

Jeanne02Tell us a bit about yourself and what you’re currently working on or promoting.
I’m a buxom (okay, chunky, even) redhead just past the half-century mark and still sexy as hell (at least my sweet spouse and domestic partner of over 20 years still thinks so, LOL). In the past, I was a social studies teacher who wound up working with very diverse populations. Today, I’m a bit of a recluse 😉

My current novel, now available on Amazon.com and from Club Lighthouse Publishing, is The Loves of Natalie Greenbaum, Book 1. The title character is a big band and saloon singer during the late 1920s up through the 1970s who is also a lesbian. Book 1 covers her life from the end of the Jazz Age and her first love at nineteen, through the 1930s and various love affairs that follow, up to the eve of World War II. Continue reading

What’s Trending Now

Edge-of-Love-1As an author who writes erotica, it is incumbent on me to stay abreast (no pun intended) of the latest trends in sexual behavior. While doing research, I have recently discovered a study about the rise in reporting of women on women sex both here in the US and in the UK. It is believed that the change is due to the shift in society in regards to same sex relationships, allowing women to more comfortably explore different sides of their sexuality. In addition, the advent of the internet has made finding potential partners easier. Continue reading

Blakely’s Friday Interview with MJ Nightingale

Please give a warm welcome to MJ Nightingale, author of Fire in His Eyes.

3D_promoTell us a bit about yourself and what you’re currently working on or promoting.
I’ve just finished writing my debut novel, Fire in His Eyes, and I am working on promoting it and marketing it. I am learning all the technical aspects of the new digital publishing world, and want to get the word out about my book via facebook, Goodreads, and twitter. I am also writing a second novel inspired by one of the characters in my first book, Ana.

I have two other novels on the horizon, one with author Chelle Bliss. We are planning on writing alternating chapters in a different POV. Continue reading

My New Year’s Resolutions for 2014

new-years-resolutionsIt’s that time again to focus on our goals and resolutions for the upcoming year. I’ve culled my list down to the bare essentials.

  1. Spend more time Skyping with our family and friends on the east coast (we miss them a lot)
  2. Find a better balance between writing, social media/promotion, and relaxation (I worked way too much this year!)
  3. Make exercise a daily priority (definitely need to get back into my groove)
  4. Losing the dreaded extra fifteen pounds (my clothes will fit sooo much better)
  5. Publish four more novels {Stuck In-Between – the first novel in the Bound by Your Love Series, Jenna’s Rubicon – sequel to The Demarcation of Jack and second book in the Fractured Fidelities Trilogy, Lainie’s Story (working title) – the second book in the Bound by Your Love Series, & the third and final book in the Fractured Fidelity Trilogy} (Wish me luck with all of that! And yes, I can see how #5 might compete with #2 & #6)
  6. Take a long vacation next summer and winter 🙂

What are your goals and/or resolutions for the coming year? Please share with us.

I wish everyone a very Happy New Year celebration and great love and abundance for 2014.

Warm hugs,

Blakely

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Blakely’s Friday Interview with Teresa X Roberts

Please give a warm welcome to Teresa X. Roberts, author of Why I Married a Murderer and How I Survived the Divorce. I first met Teresa when she bought my My Body Trilogy at art fare and we’ve remained friends ever since. Make sure to check out her memoir like I did and be swept up in a life you never imagined.

Author 1-Head ShotTeresa, please tell us a bit about yourself and what you’re currently working on or promoting.
I just published my first book: Why I Married a Murderer and How I Survived the Divorce which is a memoir. It is the story of the men in my life who made me the woman I am today. It is both very sad, and also hilarious in parts; I’m sure just about anyone could relate to one part or another. A bit about myself? I married a murderer and survived the divorce. Haha. Seriously though, I have a knack for finding love in odd places. Beyond that, I think I’m a pretty awesome person and I do everything I can to promote my friends and their projects. I am currently juggling promoting my memoir, writing four books at one time as well as looking for a manufacturer to license a product I created. Did I mention I’m nuts? Continue reading

Happy Holidays

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I love this time of year because it gives us great reasons to reflect. 2013 brought many exciting events for which I’m thankful. My first novel, My Body-His came out in November of 2012, so I started off 2013 being a newly published author with Fanny Press. I experienced book signings for the first time and I must say, that was definitely a highlight. My Body-His (Marcello) came out in March 2013 and My Body-Mine was released in July 2013.

In addition, my husband, Dana Bennett, and I self-published The Demarcation of Jack. There was a stiff learning curve getting all the formatting just so, but with the help of a great editor and cover artist, we are thrilled with the outcome. Continue reading

Blakely’s Friday Interview with Alex Siegel

Please give a warm welcome to Alex Siegel, author of the Gray Spear Society series.

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Tell us a bit about yourself and what you’re currently working on or promoting.
By day, I’m a software engineer who works in a trading firm in downtown Chicago. I have a wife and triplet boys. They’re twelve and more than a handful.

For the last four years, I’ve been working on the Gray Spear Society series. I’m currently writing book twelve in the series. The first eleven volumes are available as e-books on Amazon, iTunes, and Barnes & Noble. The first book in the series, Apocalypse Cult, is permanently free, so I recommend readers start with that one. The complete list of books can be found on my website (see link below). Continue reading

Bush or no Bush – To Hair is Human, but to Trim is Divine

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As requested by an online friend, I’m parting the hairs of the nether regions to find out people’s preferences. As to my personal preference: I like smooth lips but hair on the mound for a woman. Something more than a thin landing strip. I most definitely DO NOT like men shaved, but trimmed is fine. Men devoid of pubic hair, reads effeminate to me, and I like my men manly. A female with a bald pussy reminds me of a prepubescent girl, but I certainly can understand the want of uncovering the lips and clit for better access. Continue reading