Please give a warm welcome to Jack Hunter who is guest blogging today.

Just over a year ago I (Jack) was reading a book called “My Secret Garden” by Nancy Friday. The book is a collection of female fantasies. They were collected by the author and then collated into a book, which gives a fascinating insight in the secret fantasy lives of women.

The book really got me thinking, I thought about how keen these ladies seemed to talk about their fantasy lives. How varied and in some cases extreme their fantasies were. I realized that even though this book was written in the 1970’s things still haven’t changed that much. Women are still judged for enjoying sex, they are still treated as sexual objects and they are still to some extent sexually repressed.

I talked this through with an old friend (Lola now my partner at Secret Erotica) and she started to complain about the low quality of erotica sites on online and also about the fact that they were all so female-unfriendly with lots of annoying guys on them.

That’s when the idea for Secret Erotica came about. We decided to create an amazing online community for ourselves and the rest of the world to enjoy free from misogyny and horny internet pests! Continue reading →